Why Parkinson’s Can Make It Harder to Find the Right Words

How Parkinson’s Can Make It Harder to Find the Right Words

We’ve all had moments when a familiar word sits frustratingly “on the tip of our tongue.”

Usually, it appears a few seconds later.

For many people living with Parkinson’s, however, these moments can happen more often and become increasingly frustrating.

You know exactly what you want to say.

You know the person you’re talking about.

The word just won’t come.

This can sometimes lead people to worry that something is seriously wrong, but occasional word-finding difficulties are a recognised non-motor symptom of Parkinson’s.

It’s not about intelligence

One of the most important things to remember is that struggling to find a word does not mean you’ve forgotten the information.

The knowledge is still there.

The challenge is retrieving the word quickly enough during conversation.

This can be frustrating, particularly when speaking in a group or under pressure.

The brain is processing differently

Parkinson’s can affect several areas involved in language, attention and executive function.

As a result, retrieving words quickly may require more mental effort than it once did.

Fatigue, stress and busy environments can make this even more noticeable.

Rushing often makes it harder

When someone is waiting for us to answer, it’s natural to feel pressure.

Ironically, that pressure can sometimes make finding the right word even more difficult.

Taking a breath and allowing yourself a few extra seconds can often help.

Family and friends can make a difference

If someone living with Parkinson’s pauses during conversation, resist the urge to finish every sentence for them.

Sometimes they simply need a little more time.

Patient listening can be one of the greatest forms of support.

Helpful strategies

• Slow conversations down when possible.
• Reduce background noise.
• Don’t be afraid to describe the word if it won’t come.
• Use gestures if they help.
• Allow yourself time without apologising.

Communication is about connection

The goal of conversation isn’t finding every word instantly.

It’s connecting with other people.

Most friends and family care far more about what you’re saying than how quickly you say it.

The hidden side of Parkinson’s

Word-finding difficulties are another reminder that Parkinson’s affects much more than movement alone.

You may also find these related articles helpful:

• Why Parkinson’s Can Make Following Group Conversations More Difficult
• Why Parkinson’s Can Make Background Noise Harder to Filter Out
• Why Parkinson’s Can Make You Feel Tired After Socialising

Needing a little longer to find the right words doesn’t diminish your thoughts, your knowledge or your voice. Parkinson’s may sometimes slow the path between your thoughts and your speech, but what you have to say remains just as valuable.

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